Kimmies VIP Party in Toronto
CLUB ETIQUETTE
Kimmie's Parties are hosted at Private Lifestyles Clubs and Homes. Respect is the key to everyone having a good time.
Lifestyle party Etiquette
Before attending a lifestyle party a couple or single must learn some etiquette
and basic rules first.This is a small guide for new swingers.
New swingers arriving!
Since you're the newbies you need to keep this in mind: swinging is for
open-minded individuals. As a couple, it wont be viewed favorably if one
partner leaves early and the other stays, the majority of time, if one goes,
both go remember you and your mate are trying to become a swinger couple.
The swinger party won't last forever
Arrive early or at least on time. Its not fashionable to turn up late to
parties, as the night may have already got underway, or you may miss out
on the introductions and not know who the people are you are interested
in. Be polite The swinging lifestyle is full of insecurities and uncertainties.
You should behave as a real swinger. As the saying goes , treat people in
the way you want to be treated, sensitively, thoughtfully, understandingly.
In lifestyle parties if you're not friendly you're out
Be friendly with every one, even when you are not interested as their best
friend might be someone you are interested in. Many swingers don't swap
or have intercourse with other until till they are comfortable with their
surroundings and the people involved. Don't feel they are not interested
if they don't play on the first meeting.
Health and hygiene
In a lifestyle party you should interact in many different ways with other
swingers. The main thing that may turn the potential partners off may be
bad breath or body odor. Have a shower before leaving for the party. Only
do what is really fun. The whole idea is to enjoy one self, that’s why the
lifestyle and its parties exist.
How and why to say no
The most basic and important rule in lifestyle party etiquette is the right
to say "NO". A simple and polite No, thanks, is all that is required.
There's no need to explain, as this may cause problems and hurt. Do not
be afraid to say no, every one has the right, and if someone does end up
doing things he/she doesn't want to it may cause more ill-felling and embarrassment.
Do not be pushy
If one fancies swinging with someone let them know in a nice, inviting way,
if they say no, it is up to them. Do not ask them why, as this could be
embarrassing and hurtful. If they decide not to swing with you, do not carry
on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them, as this may do a lot
more harm than good.
Alcohol
Most people like a few drinks at a party, drinking socially is fine, it
may provide a good social platform to get to know other swingers, it may
also help everyone relax. Overindulging is not a good thing though, as it
may hinder physical and mental performance, and is a turn off for many people.
If anyone needs to drink heavily to participate in the party this isn't
the lifestyle for him/her.
Practice safe sex
It is up to every swinger to protect his/her self and his/her partner. The
use of condoms should not offend any one, it is not saying one is dirty,
it is simple a means to protect all swingers involved. Anyone not willing
to use a condom is selfish and irresponsible. How ever, saying that, if
all participating people are happy not to, it may come down to discretion.
Do not take someone to a lifestyle party who is not fully informed.
This is an obvious one, don't take any one to a lifestyle party who doesn't’t
know what there getting into, it is very embarrassing for every one, and
probably may cause problems. Do not take a ticket to a lifestyle party A
ticket is someone who goes with another person to the party just to get
a third one in, but has no intention swinging, of course no one HAS to swing,
but if one person swings, it is normally expected that the other one is
willing to swing. The "free for all room" is for group swinging,
if one takes a partner with him/her into the swinging room they may expect
others to ask to join them , obviously still there's the right to refuse.
The "Couples Feast" room is for couples only and no single males
are permitted in the room.
Do not disturb the lifestyle enjoyment of others
If in a bedroom or the group room, do not disturb the swinging of others
with prolonged talk. This may be very mood-destroying and very annoying!
If a party is BYOB (bring your own booze), only drink what you bring, unless
under permission from others.
Enjoy yourself
Probably the most important one, approach every thing with an open mind
and positive attitude, act out your fantasies, and enjoy your self.
If at any time you break ANY of the rules, you will be escorted out and banned from ever returning. NO REFUNDS, NO 2nd CHANCES. Remember, it is a PRIVILEGE for everyone to be permitted at Kimmies Party, so don't jeopardize your privilege.